Hi. Hey. So I decided I would start a blog because I spend too much time talking to myself whilst walking to work when I should really just write it down. Every morning I put my headphones in and have a 20 minute conversation with myself on whatever topic has popped into my head- and … Continue reading First of many.
Teach girls bravery not perfection.
I recently watched a TED Talk on Facebook by a woman named Reshma Saujani, these words are the ones that rang most true. "Most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure, they are taught to smile pretty, play it safe, get all A's. Boys on the other hand are taught to play rough, taught … Continue reading Teach girls bravery not perfection.
Free my nipples.
I did a photoshoot a few months ago for a girl in her final year at London College of Fashion. She had made these beautiful Greek wedding veils and wanted them captured in a natural environment that took no distraction from them. So we shot them topless and with a really natural make up look- I … Continue reading Free my nipples.
A Love Letter to Myself.
This photo was taken whilst I was a patient at The Cardinal Clinic, in Windsor. I was admitted to the clinic for bulimia, self harm and depression. This picture was taken by the group of friends that I made whilst I was a patient there. In this picture I hated myself, I hated everything about … Continue reading A Love Letter to Myself.
“But what if I fall, oh but darling what if you fly.”
Traumas affect us in everyday life, whether it be a degrading comment from a colleague, being fired or losing a loved one. You can either chose to let them knock you down or you can learn from them. I have suffered traumas in my life like every other person, I have lost loved ones, friends, … Continue reading “But what if I fall, oh but darling what if you fly.”
The final Christmas.
I had spent the entire Christmas holiday on my own as my family had gone away skiing, a lot of people have blamed my parents for leaving me but I have always said it was my choice to stay. I knew what I was going to do from the minute they left the house, I … Continue reading The final Christmas.
Suicide
The first time I attempted suicide wasn’t nearly as serious as the last time. Of course its still serious and still an attempt on your own life but I rarely ever talk about it because in the grand scheme of things and events in my life that have happened, this was rather small. I remember spending … Continue reading Suicide
Bulimia & Self Harm
Okay so I am taking a bit more of a personal approach to this post so give me a minute! I began my journey of self-destruction quite early on, around the ages 12 or 13. At this age my biological father had not been in my life for many years and he became a separate … Continue reading Bulimia & Self Harm
Men aren’t pigs.
Men aren't pigs; they really aren't. In fact I love me, I have a lot of wonderful men in my life who have enhanced it and have become very good friends, I have a father who is a great man, a grandfather who is a great man and an uncle who is a great man; … Continue reading Men aren’t pigs.
Period Problems
Ladies. Period Problems, we all have them. Here is one of my experiences: So I started a new job today, well yesterday now, 15th August. My job title is receptionist, I was sat at the front desk and low and behold mother nature hit. Always in the non-finest hour. I have nothing on me (Ladies, … Continue reading Period Problems